1. Conform to God's pattern of thinking: However you react is based on pre-programmed ideas you received when you were growing up, but the Bible says: "Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind..." (Rom 12:2)
2. Remove your old programme of thinking: "A good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth good things..." (Mt 12:35) Your life is not at the mercy of others. You determine the effect of others on your life. You are the one who decides if a difficulty is going to control you, or if you are going to control a difficulty. The way we deal with our circumstances is rooted in our minds. Once your mind has been renewed, your life will change - "...be renewed in the spirit of your mind" (Eph 4:23).
3. Our lives are not determined by WHO we are but by WHOSE we are: "Keep me as the apple of Your eye, hide me in the shadow of Your wings" (Ps 17:8)
In truth, it's all about depending on God, rather than yourself, or the way the world sees you - He values and treasures you, no matter what your circumstances, no matter what you have done or failed to do. Trust in Him and you will have perfect peace, your mind will be renewed, your focus will be renewed, you will face life with a new attitude!
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